The different rates of time flow is a well verified effect and amazing. We never notice this effect in everyday life because in everyday life relative velocities are too low to make it noticeable.
Nature has given us an invariant speed c, and so modern metrology makes use of that by making c an absolute standard.
Since nature has NOT given us an invariant-length macroscopic object, the modern meter definition has been chose to be the distance traveled at the vacuum light speed in 1/299792458 s.
c = 2.99792458*10**8 m/s ≅ 2.998 * 10**8 m/s ≅ 2.998 * 10**10 cm/s ≅ 3 * 10**5 km/s ≅ 1 ft/ns (which is well known to people building precision circuitry and optical systems).